I just recently returned from Moscow where I was finishing up cleaning out my dad’s storage areas after his death in Nov. When I was just about finished and after sending things to donation, recycling and the dump, I decided it was time to take the “good stuff” to an antique’s dealer or estate agent. I was told Richard Old works in this area and recognizing the name, I called him. He told me that, like many people, I had gone about the process of managing “stuff” backwards. I promised him I would pass on his suggestions which I wish I had known about before I started this process back in April and finally finished this week. I had made several trips from Portland and spent about 300 hours on it which I could have reduced immensely by calling him first. His recommendation: First, open a box, closet, room (or whatever) and pick out what you would like to keep. Place your treasure in your car. Continue this process until you have gone through everything in the house and the family has picked out what they would like to keep. Drive away with your remembrances and treasures. Leave everything else as it is. Don’t bother cleaning, making those trips to Goodwill or the dump. Call a reputable and experienced estate dealer (Richard has been doing this 30+ years) and let them take care of the rest. With their knowledge the remaining items can be separated properly into the give-aways and throw-aways, or sold for the proper prices. Richard told me it is his policy to leave the house empty and ready for the next resident, with even the toilets cleaned. He surprisingly told me that he finds the most interest in the clothes, books and “junk” rather than what people think is the “good stuff”. Give him a chance if you have to go through this difficult and often emotional process. Wish I had known about him earlier!
It was fun talking with you Richard!!
Cec Zander